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The Open Heaven 16 June 2025 devotional for today is WORDS ARE POWERFUL I.

This is a daily devotion written by Pastor E. A. Adeboye, General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG).

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OPEN HEAVEN 16 JUNE 2025 TODAY DEVOTIONAL

TOPIC: WORDS ARE POWERFUL I

MEMORISE:

For in many things we offend all. If any man offend not in word, the same is a perfect man, and able also to bridle the whole body.
James 3:2

READ: James 3:2-13

2 For in many things we offend all. If any man offend not in word, the same is a perfect man, and able also to bridle the whole body.
3 Behold, we put bits in the horses’ mouths, that they may obey us; and we turn about their whole body.
4 Behold also the ships, which though they be so great, and are driven of fierce winds, yet are they turned about with a very small helm, whithersoever the governor listeth.
5 Even so the tongue is a little member, and boasteth great things. Behold, how great a matter a little fire kindleth!
6 And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity: so is the tongue among our members, that it defileth the whole body, and setteth on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire of hell.

7 For every kind of beasts, and of birds, and of serpents, and of things in the sea, is tamed, and hath been tamed of mankind:
8 But the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison.
9 Therewith bless we God, even the Father; and therewith curse we men, which are made after the similitude of God.
10 Out of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be.
11 Doth a fountain send forth at the same place sweet water and bitter?
12 Can the fig tree, my brethren, bear olive berries? either a vine, figs? so can no fountain both yield salt water and fresh.
13 Who is a wise man and endued with knowledge among you? let him shew out of a good conversation his works with meekness of wisdom.

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RCCG OPEN HEAVEN 16 JUNE 2025 TODAY MESSAGE

When I got married and had children, things were really difficult for me and my young family. However, I would always tell my wife to brace up because things would not remain tough forever. I never allowed any negative confession to come out of my mouth because I knew that they would negatively impact our future. 

When the Shunammite woman lost her son, she never allowed any negative word to come out of her mouth. All she kept saying was, “It shall be well” and “It is well” (2 Kings 4:23,26). She refused to utter negative words that would aid what the devil was trying to achieve. Instead, she kept speaking what she wanted until everything became well indeed.

Words are very powerful. In Africa, the elders say that they are like an egg, meaning that once they are uttered, their impact cannot be reversed. You must be careful what you say and how you say it. When you speak negative words, the damage they cause may be irreparable, even if you are genuinely sorry about uttering them.

Don’t speak when you are extremely angry or very excited because you may say the wrong things. You should also be careful with your words whenever you are sad because there is power in your tongue. The power of life and death lies in the tongue (Proverbs 18:21), and you must be intentional about the words you speak.

Proverbs 6:2 says, “Thou art snared with the words of thy mouth, thou art taken with the words of thy mouth.” No matter what happens, always think before you talk. 

Also, always let your words be in line with God’s word. The word of God is powerful; it can break every negative word that has been spoken over your life and destiny. 

Jabez was a newborn baby when his mother made a negative pronouncement over him. She set him up for a life of sorrow and hardship because she spoke when she was in pain. Thankfully, Jabez rejected sorrow and hardship by crying to God to bless him, and God turned his life around (1 Chronicles 4:9-10).

Beloved, whatever you say is what you will get; therefore, use your tongue wisely. If you have made negative pronouncements over your life or your children’s lives, ask God for mercy and begin to overwrite them with God’s word. I pray that His word will continually lift you up and bless all that concerns you, in Jesus’ name.

PRAYER POINT:

Lord, please help me to always use my tongue wisely, in Jesus’ name.

BIBLE IN ONE YEAR

Psalms 62-68

HYMN 34: YIELD NOT TO TEMPTATION

OPEN HEAVEN DEVOTIONAL 16 JUNE 2025 COMMENTARY

Words as Spiritual Seeds

This devotional reveals a profound biblical truth – your words are spiritual containers that carry either life or death (Proverbs 18:21). Through personal testimony and scriptural examples, we’re challenged to become intentional about our speech, understanding that every utterance plants seeds for future harvests in our lives and families.

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1. Biblical Case Studies of Word Power

A. The Shunammite Woman’s Faith Declaration (2 Kings 4:23,26)

• Situation: Her promised son had died
• Response: “It is well” (Hebrew: “Shalom” – nothing missing, nothing broken)
• Result: Prophet Elisha raised her son
• Principle: She spoke what she wanted not what she saw

B. Jabez’s Counter-Declaration (1 Chronicles 4:9-10)

• Mother’s Curse: Named him “Jabez” (sorrow-bringer)
• His Prayer: “Oh that thou wouldest bless me indeed…”
• Divine Response: “God granted him that which he requested”
• Lesson: Negative words can be overwritten by faith-filled prayers

C. Pastor Adeboye’s Family Testimony

• Challenge: Early marital/financial struggles
• Strategy: Refused negative confessions
• Result: Breakthrough came as declared

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2. The Anatomy of Destructive Speech

A. Three Dangerous Times to Speak (When to Guard Your Tongue)

1. In Extreme Anger
   • Leads to curses (James 1:19-20)
   • Example: Moses striking the rock (Numbers 20:10-12)
2. In Over-Excitement
   • Rash vows (Judges 11:30-35)
   • Empty boasts (Peter’s denial prophecy)
3. In Deep Sorrow
   • Job’s wife: “Curse God and die” (Job 2:9)
   • Jabez’s mother’s painful naming

B. The African Proverb Insight

• “Words are like eggs” – Once broken, cannot be put back
• Biblical Parallel:
  • James 3:5 – How great a forest a little fire kindles
  • Matthew 12:36 – Account for every idle word

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3. The Believer’s Speech Rehabilitation Plan

A. Immediate Action for Negative Words Spoken

1. Repentance: Psalm 51:15 – “Open my lips…”
2. Renunciation: Cancel wrong declarations (Mark 11:23)
3. Replacement: Saturate with Scripture (Colossians 3:16)

B. Daily Speech Discipline

1. THINK Filter Before Speaking:
   • T – True?
   • H – Helpful?
   • I – Inspiring?
   • N – Necessary?
   • K – Kind?
2. Morning Declaration Practice:
   • Psalm 118:24 – “This is the day…”
   • Numbers 6:24-26 – Priestly blessing
3. Evening Reflection:
   • Psalm 141:3 – “Set a guard…”
   • Review conversations

C. Creating a Word-Rich Environment

1. Home Atmosphere:
   • No cursing allowed (Ephesians 4:29)
   • Testimony sharing
2. Workplace Influence:
   • Bless even difficult colleagues (Romans 12:14)
3. Social Media Caution:
   • Digital words also carry power

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4. The Transformative Power of God’s Word

A. Sword of the Spirit (Hebrews 4:12)

• Offensive Weapon: Cuts through negative word curses
• Defensive Shield: Protects from harmful speech

B. Creative Power (Genesis 1)

• God spoke creation into being
• We create atmospheres with our words

C. Jesus’ Example

• Never spoke failure over disciples
• Even at crucifixion: “Father forgive…”

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Prayer for Tongue Transformation

“Father, purify my speech today. Forgive every destructive word I’ve spoken. Set a guard over my mouth (Psalm 141:3). Fill me with Your Word so that what overflows brings life. Break every negative word spoken over me, and make me a channel of blessing, in Jesus’ name. Amen.”

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Conclusion: Your Words Shape Your World

1. Daily Choice:
   • Death or life
   • Curse or blessing
2. Generational Impact:
   • Your words affect children’s destiny
3. Eternal Perspective:
   • Matthew 12:37 – “By your words you’ll be justified…”

Final Challenge:

• 7-Day Speech Fast: No negative words about:
  • Yourself
  • Family
  • Circumstances

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Key Takeaways:

Words are spiritual seeds – plant wisely
Anger, excitement and sorrow require extra caution
God’s Word can overwrite negative declarations

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The Open Heaven 15 June 2025 devotional for today is TALK TO YOUR FATHER.

This is a daily devotion written by Pastor E. A. Adeboye, General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG).

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OPEN HEAVEN 15 JUNE 2025 TODAY DEVOTIONAL

TOPIC: TALK TO YOUR FATHER

MEMORISE:

And because ye are sons, God hath sent forth the Spirit of his Son into your hearts, crying, Abba, Father.
Galatians 4:6

READ: Romans 8:14-17

14 For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God.
15 For ye have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear; but ye have received the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father.
16 The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God:
17 And if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and joint-heirs with Christ; if so be that we suffer with him, that we may be also glorified together.

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RCCG OPEN HEAVEN 15 JUNE 2025 TODAY MESSAGE

During my regular morning prayer walk one day, I remembered a joke. I was preparing for a ministers’ conference, so I tried to push the joke out of my thoughts. However, I sensed that God wanted to tell me something through the joke, so l allowed myself to think about it.

During the conference, I shared the joke, which goes thus: A husband and his wife had been quarrelling for a long time. Things got so bad that they said they wouldn’t talk to each other anymore. One night, the husband, who was a heavy sleeper, wrote a note for his wife, “Darling, I have to catch a plane at 8am. Please wake me at 6am.” He placed the note on his wife’s side of the bed and slept. 

When he woke up the following morning, it was 8am, and his wife had gone to work. He was furious, and as he fumed, he saw a note on his side of the bed where his wife wrote, “Darling, wake up. It’s 6am.”

After sharing the joke, God told me, “Tell My people: I won’t talk to those of you who don’t talk to Me.” God loves it when you talk to Him, and when you do, you invite Him to also speak with you.

When the disciples asked Jesus to teach them to pray, the first thing He said was, “When you pray, say, ‘Our Father…”” (Luke 11:2). 

No father loves it when his children don’t talk to him. As a father, I enjoy it when my children spend time with me. 

1 John 3:1 says that the Father has bestowed such great love on you by calling you His son. John 8:35 says that a servant doesn’t abide in the house, but a son abides forever.

As God’s precious child, you have access to Him at all times. You can call on Him and talk to Him about anything, and He will respond.

If you’re a child of God, seek to be more intimate with your Father every day (Philippians 3:10). 

If, however, you’re not yet a child of God, then you cannot have access to Him until you acknowledge Jesus as your Lord and Saviour. If you were once a Christian but have backslidden and disconnected yourself from God like the prodigal son (Luke 15:11-32), run back into His waiting arms.

Beloved, God longs and seeks for His children to worship Him in spirit and in truth (John 4:23). Fulfil His desire by speaking with Him continually.

ACTION POINT:

Talk to your heavenly Father every day. Also, today is Father’s Day; call or spend time with your father or any other father figure in your life.

BIBLE IN ONE YEAR

Psalms 56-61

HYMN 6: I AM SO GLAD THAT OUR FATHER IN HEAV’N

OPEN HEAVEN DEVOTIONAL 15 JUNE 2025 COMMENTARY

The Heartbeat of Relationship

This devotional reveals a profound spiritual truth through a simple marital joke – communication is the lifeblood of all relationships, especially our relationship with God. Just as earthly fathers delight in their children’s voices, our Heavenly Father longs for continual conversation with His children. We’ll explore the sacred privilege of divine dialogue and its transformative power in a believer’s life.

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1. The Parable of Silence (Understanding the Joke’s Spiritual Meaning)

A. The Marital Breakdown

• Scenario: A couple’s communication failure through:
  • Prolonged quarrels
  • Silent treatment
  • Passive-aggressive notes
• Result: Missed flight (divine appointments)

B. God’s Warning: “I Won’t Talk to Those Who Don’t Talk to Me”

1. Principle: Prayer is a two-way relationship, not religious duty
2. Danger: When we stop initiating with God, we miss:
   • His wake-up calls (divine timing)
   • Daily guidance (John 10:27)
   • Comfort in trials (Psalm 34:17)

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2. The Theology of Divine Conversation

A. The Lord’s Prayer Model (Luke 11:2)

• “Our Father” establishes:
  • Family relationship (not slave/master)
  • Approachability
  • Loving authority

B. The Spirit of Adoption (Romans 8:15)

• Abba: The Aramaic term combining:
  • Intimacy (“Daddy”)
  • Respect (“Father”)
• Evidence: The indwelling Spirit prompts us to call out

C. The Prodigal’s Lesson (Luke 15:11-32)

• Disconnection: Began when son stopped talking to father
• Restoration: Initiated when “he came to himself” (v.17)

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3. Practical Steps to Cultivate Divine Dialogue

A. For Growing Christians

1. Morning Invitations:
   • “Good morning Father” before checking phones
   • Psalm 5:3 model
2. Continual Communion:
   • 1 Thessalonians 5:17 practice
   • “Breath prayers” throughout the day
3. Listening Posture:
   • Journaling during quiet times
   • Testing impressions with Scripture

B. For Backsliders

1. The Return Journey:
   • Acknowledge silence as rebellion
   • Repent like David (Psalm 51)
2. Restoring Conversation:
   • Start with honest confession
   • Rebuild through Psalms

C. For Non-Believers

1. Initial Connection:
   • Romans 10:9-10 salvation prayer
   • “Behold, I stand at the door and knock” (Revelation 3:20)

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4. The Blessings of Constant Communication

A. Divine Protection

• Early warning system (Isaiah 30:21)
• Storm preparedness (Mark 4:35-41)

B. Supernatural Provision

• Needs revealed before asked (Matthew 6:8)
• Divine strategies in crisis (1 Kings 17:2-4)

C. Emotional Stability

• Peace that surpasses understanding (Philippians 4:6-7)
• Comfort in grief (2 Corinthians 1:3-4)

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Prayer to Restore Divine Dialogue

“Abba Father, forgive my seasons of silence. Awaken in me a fresh desire for Your presence. Teach me to walk in continual communion as Jesus did. Let Your Spirit prompt my spirit to cry out to You in every season. Rekindle the intimacy we shared when I first believed, in Jesus’ name. Amen.”

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Conclusion: Your Father is Waiting

1. Today’s Invitation:
   • Hebrews 4:16 throne of grace access
   • Jeremiah 33:3 call and answer promise
2. Eternal Perspective:
   • Earthly communication foreshadows eternal fellowship (Revelation 21:3)

Final Challenge:

• Set 3 daily “divine appointments” (morning, noon, night)
• Initiate conversation before making requests
• Listen twice as much as you speak

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The Open Heaven 13 June 2025 devotional for today is PRAYERS FOR YOUTHS.

This is a daily devotion written by Pastor E. A. Adeboye, General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG).

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OPEN HEAVEN 13 JUNE 2025 TODAY DEVOTIONAL

TOPIC: PRAYERS FOR YOUTHS

MEMORISE:

Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart.
2 Timothy 2:22

READ: Ecclesiastes 11:9-10

9 Rejoice, O young man, in thy youth; and let thy heart cheer thee in the days of thy youth, and walk in the ways of thine heart, and in the sight of thine eyes: but know thou, that for all these things God will bring thee into judgment.
10 Therefore remove sorrow from thy heart, and put away evil from thy flesh: for childhood and youth are vanity.

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RCCG OPEN HEAVEN 13 JUNE 2025 TODAY MESSAGE

1. Father, I thank You for all the Christian youths across the world. Thank You for this new generation that You have chosen to show forth Your glory.

2. Father, please let all the youths in my community and around the world who are yet to accept Jesus as their Lord and Saviour be convicted by the Holy Spirit to surrender their lives to You.

3. Father, please guide the youths as they make decisions in their education, careers, relationships, and other areas of life. Help them to make the right decisions in line with Your will for their lives, in Jesus’ name.

4. Father, please keep the youths focused on You. Help them to grow deeper in love with You, in Jesus’ name.

5. Father, please help the youths break all negative generational patterns. May they not repeat the mistakes of past generations, in Jesus’ name.

6. Lord, I come against any agenda of the enemy concerning the youths around me. They will not die, but they will live to show forth the glory of God and become terrors to the kingdom of darkness, in Jesus’ name.

7. Lord, please help the youths overcome the devil’s plans to indoctrinate them with perverse morals and cultures. I decree that his evil doctrines will have no influence over them, in Jesus’ name.

8. Father, please set the youths on fire for You. Let them rise in every part of the world, speaking boldly about You and influencing their communities for Your Kingdom, in Jesus’ name.

9. Father, please let Your excellent Spirit rest on every youth. Bless them with Your wisdom and creativity, and make them agents of positive change in their societies, in Jesus’ name.

10. Father, please strengthen the youths to overcome temptations, depression, stress, and anxiety. Empower them with good health and a sound mind to deal with all of life’s challenges, in Jesus’ name.

11. Father, help the youths develop the right sense of responsibility that will make them excellent leaders, in Jesus’ name.

12. Your personal prayer points for the youths around you.

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Psalms 43-49

HYMN 22: SWEET HOUR OF PRAYER

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The Open Heaven 12 June 2025 devotional for today is GOD HATES DIVORCE.

This is a daily devotion written by Pastor E. A. Adeboye, General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG).

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OPEN HEAVEN 12 JUNE 2025 TODAY DEVOTIONAL

TOPIC: GOD HATES DIVORCE

MEMORISE:

For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away: for one covereth violence with his garment, saith the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously.
Malachi 2:16

READ: Mark 10:2-9

2 And the Pharisees came to him, and asked him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife? tempting him.
3 And he answered and said unto them, What did Moses command you?
4 And they said, Moses suffered to write a bill of divorcement, and to put her away.
5 And Jesus answered and said unto them, For the hardness of your heart he wrote you this precept.

6 But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female.
7 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife;
8 And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.
9 What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

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RCCG OPEN HEAVEN 12 JUNE 2025 TODAY MESSAGE

God designed the marriage institution to be sacred (Genesis 2:24), but unfortunately, many people in the world today do not see it that way. Many married couples treat their businesses and careers better than their marriages, and expectedly, the divorce rate has become alarming across the world. God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16); hence, His children should never toy with it. When a couple gets divorced, they go against God’s commandment not to separate what He has joined together.

I know some people seek divorce because they consider their marriages ‘hell on earth’. While I sympathise with them, the truth is that no amount of pain on earth can be compared to an eternity in hell. Divorce is not God’s will; it is the hardness of man’s heart that made Moses permit it among the Israelites (Matthew 19:3-9).

The pain of divorce is also often very deep. It negatively affects families and can be felt for several generations. It opens doors to many vices and a lot of the decadence we see in the world today.

Yes, spouses should separate when lives are threatened and then trust God for a full restoration of the family.

Married couples must stay rooted in the basics of marriage (Ephesians 5:22-33) just as successful athletes who want to remain relevant must stick to the basics of their sports. 

Unconditional love and submission, sacrifice, reverence, and God’s word are the basics of marriage; if couples stick to them, they will experience bliss and peace in their marriages.

Married couples must pray together regularly. They must remain vigilant and never be ignorant of the devil’s devices (2 Corinthians 2:11). 

Sometimes, when the devil is after a married couple with children, his main target is not the couple themselves but their children since he knows that broken homes often, if not always, negatively affect children. Married couples should defend their homes and protect their children with the help of the Holy Spirit.

Beloved, if you are married, consistently stand in the gap for your marriage with prayers. God has restored many ‘dead’ marriages because one or both parties prayed and acted according to His word concerning their marriage. 

If you are planning to get married, you must prayerfully seek God’s counsel before doing so. For Christian marriages to be successful, couples must ensure that their marriage is rooted in God’s word and also ensure that they work together to nurture it with the help of the Holy Spirit.

PRAYER POINT:

Lord, please heal every home that is on the brink of divorce, in Jesus’ name.

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Psalms 43-49

HYMN 29: WHEN PEACE LIKE A RIVER ATTENDETH MY WAY

OPEN HEAVEN DEVOTIONAL 12 JUNE 2025 COMMENTARY

The Sacredness of Marriage in a Throwaway Culture

In an era where relationships are treated as disposable, today’s devotional reminds us that marriage is a divine covenant, not a human contract. God’s original design (Genesis 2:24) stands in stark contrast to modern attitudes that prioritize careers and convenience over covenant. Through biblical truth and practical wisdom, we’ll explore why God hates divorce and how couples can build divorce-proof marriages.

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1. The Divine Perspective on Divorce

A. God’s Original Design vs. Human Compromise

• God’s Plan: One man, one woman, one flesh for life (Mark 10:8-9)
• Human Adaptation: Moses permitted divorce due to hard hearts (Mark 10:5)
• Jesus’ Clarification: Divorce was never God’s ideal (Matthew 19:8)

B. Why God Hates Divorce (Malachi 2:16)

1. It Violates Covenant: Marriage reflects Christ & Church (Ephesians 5:32)
2. It Damages Generations: Children suffer identity wounds
3. It Opens Spiritual Doors: Broken covenants invite demonic oppression

C. The Only Biblical Exception

• Physical Safety: Separation when lives are threatened
• Goal: Temporary protection leading to restoration (1 Corinthians 7:10-11)

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2. The Devastating Consequences of Divorce

A. Personal Impact

• Emotional trauma worse than death (prolonged grief)
• Financial devastation (double households)
• Spiritual confusion (broken covenant)

B. Generational Effects

1. On Children:
   • 5x more likely to live in poverty
   • 2x more likely to drop out of school
   • More susceptible to addiction and depression
2. On Society:
   • 85% of youth in prison come from fatherless homes
   • 71% of high school dropouts lack father involvement

Biblical Example:
The rebellious sons of Eli (1 Samuel 2:12) illustrate how parental failure produces generational dysfunction.

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3. The Four Pillars of Covenant Marriage

A. Unconditional Love (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)

• Not based on feelings but covenant commitment
• Covers sins (Proverbs 10:12)

B. Biblical Submission (Ephesians 5:21-33)

• Mutual honor with different roles
• Husband’s sacrificial love → Wife’s respectful support

C. Spiritual Intimacy

• Daily prayer together
• Regular communion (spiritual and physical)

D. Warfare Mentality (2 Corinthians 2:11)

• Recognize Satan targets:
  • Communication breakdown
  • Financial stress
  • In-law interference
  • Sexual dissatisfaction

Practical Defense:

• Weekly marriage check-ins
• Annual spiritual retreats
• Accountability with mature couples

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4. Hope for Struggling Marriages

A. For Those Considering Divorce

1. Seek Godly Counsel: Not from secular therapists alone
2. 90-Day Experiment:
   • No divorce talk
   • Daily prayer together
   • Weekly date nights
3. Remember: No earthly pain compares to hell (Matthew 16:26)

B. For Those Already Divorced

1. Receive God’s Mercy: (Lamentations 3:22-23)
2. Break Generational Curses: Through repentance
3. Future Relationships:
   • Wait for clear confirmation
   • Ensure biblical grounds for remarriage

C. For Singles Considering Marriage

1. Foundation Check:
   • Both born-again?
   • Shared vision?
   • Emotional health?
2. Pre-Marital Counseling: Minimum 6 months
3. Parental Blessing: When possible (Exodus 20:12)

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Prayer for Marital Restoration

“Father, we repent for trivializing what You called sacred. Heal our marriages with Your covenant love. Where Satan has sown discord, let Your peace reign. Raise up intercessors for struggling couples. Make our homes testimonies of Your faithfulness, in Jesus’ name. Amen.”

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Conclusion: Rebuilding a Marriage-Honoring Culture

1. Church Responsibility:
   • Teach biblical marriage uncompromisingly
   • Create support groups for struggling couples
2. Government Responsibility:
   • Reform no-fault divorce laws
   • Incentivize marriage counseling
3. Personal Responsibility:
   • Daily choose covenant over convenience
   • Mentor younger couples

Final Warning:
As marriage goes, so goes the church. As the church goes, so goes the nation.

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The Open Heaven 11 June 2025 devotional for today is CLEAVE AS ONE III.

This is a daily devotion written by Pastor E. A. Adeboye, General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG).

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OPEN HEAVEN 11 JUNE 2025 TODAY DEVOTIONAL

TOPIC: CLEAVE AS ONE III

MEMORISE:

And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.
Mark 10:8

READ: Deuteronomy 6:6-8

6 And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart:
7 And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.
8 And thou shalt bind them for a sign upon thine hand, and they shall be as frontlets between thine eyes.

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RCCG OPEN HEAVEN 11 JUNE 2025 TODAY MESSAGE

I’ll conclude my discussion on this topic by stating that God wants His children to enjoy their marriages, as we see in today’s memory verse. However, for this to happen, they must cleave to their spouses. When you want to glue two objects, they must be in close proximity.

When couples live in different states or countries for a long period of time, their children are usually affected negatively and may end up being raised by only one parent or other people. God instructed parents to train their children (Proverbs 22:6), but this cannot be effectively done virtually or by proxy. 

Parents’ physical presence greatly impacts the quality of training and also strengthens the bond between them and their children. When both parents live in the same house with their children, it is easier for the couple to monitor and correct them as required.

Zeruiah’s story is one of the most pathetic accounts about families in the Bible. Zeruiah was David’s sister, and she had three sons – Joab, Abishai and Asahel. Throughout the Bible, I observed that there was no mention of their father (1 Chronicles 2:16), and I’m inclined to think that this was because he was not as involved in the family as a good father should be. 

Although the boys grew up to become mighty men, they exhibited weaknesses that became their undoing. Asahel was a swift runner, and at one time, he ran until he was killed (2 Samuel 2:12-32). Joab’s hot temper made him go against his boss and uncle, David, until David placed a curse on him (2 Samuel 3:26-29). Abishai was rash in his attempt to kill God’s anointed, Saul, and David had to caution him (1 Samuel 26:5- 12). 

Another person in the Bible whose children didn’t turn out well was Eli. In my studies, I observed that there was no mention of his wife’s role in raising their children, so I was not surprised that they became sons of Belial (1 Samuel 2:12).

Living in different locations might be unavoidable for married couples sometimes, but this should only be for short periods of time. Single parenting is highly challenging, and I pray that God will give all single parents the strength and wisdom to raise their children according to His will. 

When both parents are alive and well, it is important that they work together to raise their children in the way of the Lord.

OPEN HEAVEN 11 JUNE 2025 KEY POINT

It is important for all parents to be actively involved in raising their children in the way of the Lord.

BIBLE IN ONE YEAR

Psalms 34-37

HYMN 33: GUIDE ME, O THOU GREAT JEHOVAH!

OPEN HEAVEN DEVOTIONAL 11 JUNE 2025 COMMENTARY

The Glue of Godly Presence

Today’s devotional concludes a powerful series on marital cleaving by emphasizing that physical presence is the adhesive of covenant relationships. Just as glue requires contact to bond, marriages and families disintegrate when spouses live separately. Through biblical examples and divine wisdom, we’ll explore why togetherness is non-negotiable for raising godly offspring.

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1. The Divine Blueprint for Family Structure

A. The Mathematics of Oneness (Mark 10:8)

• “One flesh” implies:
  • Physical proximity
  • Emotional intimacy
  • Spiritual unity
• Modern violation: “Married singles” living separate lives.

B. The Training Mandate (Deuteronomy 6:6-8)

God’s instruction requires:

1. Parental Availability (“when you sit, walk, lie down”)
2. Constant Modeling (truth “bound” on hands and forehead)
3. Visible Faith (doorposts and gates)

Warning: Virtual parenting cannot fulfill this command.

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2. Case Studies of Parental Absence

A. The Tragedy of Zeruiah’s Sons (1 Chronicles 2:16)

• Observation: No mention of their father.
• Resulting Flaws:
  • Asahel: Reckless speed → untimely death (2 Samuel 2:23)
  • Joab: Uncontrolled anger → generational curse (2 Samuel 3:29)
  • Abishai: Rash violence → nearly killed God’s anointed (1 Samuel 26:8)

B. Eli’s Parental Failure (1 Samuel 2:12)

• Missing Mother: No record of wife’s influence.
• Consequence: “Sons of Belial” who:
  • Despised sacrifices
  • Seduced women at the temple door
  • Died on the same day

Modern Parallel: Children raised by nannies/screens often replicate these patterns.

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3. The High Cost of Separation

A. On Children

1. Identity Confusion: Lack of unified parental voice
2. Moral Vacuum: Single parents struggle to be both nurturer and disciplinarian
3. Generational Curses: Absent fathers often produce absent fathers

B. On Marriages

1. Emotional Erosion (Proverbs 27:19)
2. Spiritual Vulnerability (1 Corinthians 7:5)
3. Missed Blessings (Psalm 133 – where brethren dwell in unity)

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4. Practical Solutions for Modern Families

A. For Couples Considering Separation

1. Financial Decisions:
   • No career advancement justifies family fragmentation
   • God blesses obedience over income (Matthew 6:33)
2. Relocation Rules:
   • Never exceed 6 months apart (devotional wisdom)
   • Always choose family over geography

B. For Single Parents

1. Divine Help:
   • “Father to the fatherless” (Psalm 68:5)
   • Seek church family support
2. Intentional Practices:
   • Establish godly mentors
   • Double prayer covering

C. For Together Families

1. Daily:
   • Family altar (morning/evening prayer)
   • Meal times without devices
2. Weekly:
   • Sabbath rest together
   • Ministry service as a unit

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Prayer for Family Restoration

“Father, we repent for every decision that prioritized money, career, or convenience over our family covenant. Heal the fractures in our homes. Where we’ve been absent—emotionally or physically—restore us with Your mercy. Make our households living examples of Deuteronomy 6 faithfulness, in Jesus’ name. Amen.”

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Conclusion: The Time to Rebuild is Now

1. Married Couples:
   • Cancel any long-term separation plans
   • Schedule a family vision retreat
2. Churches:
   • Create support systems for struggling families
   • Preach boldly against career idolatry
3. Society:
   • Advocate for family-friendly work policies
   • Celebrate parental presence over professional success

Final Warning:
A generation is at stake. As goes the family, so goes the church and nation.

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The Open Heaven 10 June 2025 devotional for today is CLEAVE AS ONE II.

This is a daily devotion written by Pastor E. A. Adeboye, General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG).

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OPEN HEAVEN 10 JUNE 2025 TODAY DEVOTIONAL

TOPIC: CLEAVE AS ONE II

MEMORISE:

Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
Matthew 19:6

READ: Psalms 133:1-3

Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!
2 It is like the precious ointment upon the head, that ran down upon the beard, even Aaron’s beard: that went down to the skirts of his garments;
3 As the dew of Hermon, and as the dew that descended upon the mountains of Zion: for there the Lord commanded the blessing, even life for evermore.

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RCCG OPEN HEAVEN 10 JUNE 2025 TODAY MESSAGE

Today, I will continue my discussion on why spouses should cleave together. When a married couple live far apart from each other for a long period of time, they will both begin to change according to their different environments without realising it. As people grow older and have new experiences, they change, and if a married couple are not going through these experiences together, they may become strangers to each other after a while. By the time such couples finally come together, they will likely be shocked by their differences.

It is difficult to cleave as one with someone you are not living with. What creates strong bonds between some siblings is not just the fact that they were born by the same parents but that they grew up together and went through certain experiences together. This is also why childhood friends have a strong bond. If you really want to cleave as one with your spouse, you need to live through experiences together.

You may say, “We talk about our day on the phone every evening,” but that is not the same as physical interaction. When you study the Bible, you will see that couples who relocated did so together. When Abraham relocated to Egypt, he went with Sarah (Genesis 13:1). When Elimelech went to Moab in search of greener pastures, he went with his wife, Naomi (Ruth 1:1). Although their story was tragic, the lesson is that relocation should be a joint venture. When the angel appeared to Joseph to take Jesus to Egypt because of Herod’s murderous intention, the family went together (Matthew 2:13-14).

There may be some unavoidable situations that may require one partner to travel to another location first. However, in such situations, the family should not stay apart for more than six months before they come back together again.

It is not healthy for couples to cause a separation in their marriage just because they want to relocate to another location they consider to be ‘greener pastures’. Anything that will affect the unity of a marriage shouldn’t be considered or permitted. Couples should do everything possible to stay together because God commands it (Mark 10:9). When they are together, it is easier to pray and agree on certain matters. However, when they are in different countries with different time zones, it is more difficult. Cleaving to one’s spouse requires being intentional about bonding, being united, and living through experiences together.

OPEN HEAVEN 10 JUNE 2025 KEY POINT:

It is important for married couples to be intentional about living through life’s experiences together.

BIBLE IN ONE YEAR

Psalms 28-33

HYMN 33: GUIDE ME, O THOU GREAT JEHOVAH!

OPEN HEAVEN DEVOTIONAL 10 JUNE 2025 COMMENTARY

The Divine Imperative for Togetherness

God’s design for marriage is permanent, purposeful proximity. Today’s devotional builds on Genesis 2:24 to emphasize that physical separation erodes marital unity—a truth increasingly neglected in our mobile, career-driven generation. Through biblical examples and practical wisdom, we’ll explore why cleaving demands intentional togetherness.

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1. The Dangers of Prolonged Separation

A. Gradual Transformation into Strangers

• Reality: Humans evolve through experiences.
• Risk:
  • Different environments shape different values/habits (Amos 3:3).
  • “You’ve changed” becomes inevitable when change happens apart.
• Example:
  • Missionary couples serving together vs. spouses in different continents.

B. Weakened Spiritual Covering

• Biblical Principle:
  • A 3-fold cord (God + husband + wife) isn’t easily broken (Ecclesiastes 4:12).
  • Physical separation creates spiritual vulnerability (1 Peter 5:8).

C. Emotional Drift

• Phone calls ≠ shared life (Proverbs 27:19).
• Science confirms:
  • Oxytocin (bonding hormone) requires physical presence.

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2. Biblical Models of Relational Integrity

A. Abraham and Sarah (Genesis 12-13)

• Faced famine, danger, and uncertainty—together.
• Lesson: Crisis should drive couples closer, not apart.

B. Elimelech and Naomi (Ruth 1)

• Though their move to Moab brought tragedy, they stayed united.
• Warning: “Greener pastures” often prove mirages when pursued alone.

C. Joseph, Mary, and Jesus (Matthew 2:13-14)

• Fled to Egypt as a unit despite the urgency.
• Principle: Family protection requires proximity.

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3. Practical Safeguards for Modern Couples

A. The Six-Month Rule

• If separation is unavoidable:
  • Reunite within 6 months (devotional’s wisdom).
  • Use technology strategically (video calls, shared devotionals).

B. Relocation Guidelines

1. Make it a Joint Decision (Amos 3:3).
2. Move Together unless absolutely impossible.
3. Reject “Greener Pastures” Mentality—no career advancement justifies marital fracture.

C. Intentional Bonding Practices

• Daily:
  • Eat at least one meal together.
  • Pray aloud holding hands.
• Monthly:
  • “No screens” date night.
• Annually:
  • Spiritual retreat (even at home).

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4. The Blessing of Obedience (Psalm 133)

A. Unity Attracts Anointing

• “There the LORD commanded the blessing” (v.3).
• Marital Application:
  • Financial provision
  • Divine protection
  • Generational impact

B. Satan’s Strategy Against Unity

• Divide and conquer (Mark 3:25).
• Counterattack:
  • Regular communion (Acts 2:42).
  • Mutual accountability.

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Prayer for Marital Steadfastness

“Father, make us relentless protectors of our union. Where we’ve allowed distance—emotional or physical—reconcile us urgently. Help us reject every ‘good’ thing that would compromise our oneness. Pour out the oil of unity upon our marriage as we obey Your design, in Jesus’ name. Amen.”

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Conclusion: No Justification for Division

1. Career? God promotes those He can trust with priorities (Psalm 75:6-7).
2. Finances? His blessing makes rich without sorrow (Proverbs 10:22).
3. Education? Wisdom begins with fearing Him—not degrees (Proverbs 9:10).

Final Charge:

• Spouses: Cancel any separation exceeding God’s grace period.
• Engaged: Let this wisdom shape your future decisions.
• Parents: Model covenant faithfulness to your children.

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The Open Heaven 9 June 2025 devotional for today is CLEAVE AS ONE I.

This is a daily devotion written by Pastor E. A. Adeboye, General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG).

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OPEN HEAVEN 9 JUNE 2025 TODAY DEVOTIONAL

TOPIC: CLEAVE AS ONE I

MEMORISE:

Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
Genesis 2:24

READ: Proverbs 5:15-21

15 Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well.
16 Let thy fountains be dispersed abroad, and rivers of waters in the streets.
17 Let them be only thine own, and not strangers’ with thee.
18 Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.
19 Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.
20 And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger?
21 For the ways of man are before the eyes of the Lord, and he pondereth all his goings.

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RCCG OPEN HEAVEN 9 JUNE 2025 TODAY MESSAGE

We live in a fast-paced world where many people are chasing wealth and riches at all costs. As a result, many marriages are suffering. In some cases, a husband works in a different state or country while the rest of his family lives in another state or country. Long distance courtships have existed for a long time, but now, we have long-distance marriages. In truth, however, a long-distance marriage isn’t healthy for any family. A couple can have a short-term arrangement for them to be apart for unavoidable reasons, but this should not be for long.

Many cases of infidelity in marriage result from the absence of one spouse. Sometimes, even married couples that live together practice long-distance marriages. This might be because one spouse leaves for work very early in the morning and gets back very late at night. Such couples are living separate lives, and one or both of the spouses are likely to form connections with the people they spend most of their time with in their spouse’s absence. Such connections can turn into ungodly affairs.

As a married fellow, if you notice that you prefer talking to other people than talking to your spouse, there is fire on the mountain.

When you prefer spending time outside your home rather than with your spouse, there is trouble. When you prefer discussing intimate issues with your ‘friends’ of the opposite sex instead of your spouse, you should retrace your steps and work on fixing whatever issues that exist in your marriage. 

Don’t deceive yourself by saying, “I’m not doing anything with that fellow; we are just friends.” Most extra-marital relationships start from casual friendships, and after a while, the devil introduces temptations that can lead to sinful acts. I pray that you will overcome any temptation that can destroy your marriage, in Jesus’ name.

If you’re married, spend more time with your spouse and make him or her your confidant. Go out to fun places and take frequent walks together. At least once a month, dress up and go on a date. Book a hotel room or a private lodge for a weekend at least once every year so you can spend quality time with your spouse, away from all distractions. 

After your relationship with God, your relationship with your spouse is the most important in your life because God has designed you both to become one, as today’s memory verse points out. Be intentional about cleaving to your spouse, and God will bless your marriage, in Jesus’ name.

OPEN HEAVEN 9 JUNE 2025 KEY POINT

Married people should be intentional about spending quality time with their spouses.

BIBLE IN ONE YEAR

Psalms 22-27

HYMN 34: YIELD NOT TO TEMPTATION

OPEN HEAVEN DEVOTIONAL 9 JUNE 2025 COMMENTARY

The Danger of Emotional and Physical Distance in Marriage

In today’s fast-paced world, many couples prioritize career and financial success over their marriages, leading to what the devotional calls “long-distance marriages.” Whether separated by geography or emotional neglect, such distance creates vulnerability to temptation and weakens God’s design for marital unity.

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1. The Problem of Long-Distance Marriages

A. Physical Separation (Living Apart)

• Reality: Many couples live in different cities/countries for work, education, or other reasons.
• Risk:
  • Loneliness and emotional voids develop.
  • The devil exploits absence to introduce temptation (1 Corinthians 7:5).
• Solution:
  • Avoid long-term separation where possible.
  • If unavoidable, set clear boundaries and maintain frequent communication.

B. Emotional Separation (Living Together but Distant)

• Reality: Some couples share a home but live separate lives due to:
  • Overworking (leaving early, returning late).
  • Neglecting quality time.
  • Preferring others’ company over their spouse.
• Risk:
  • Emotional affairs develop with coworkers or “friends.”
  • Intimacy declines, leading to dissatisfaction.
• Solution:
  • Prioritize daily connection (e.g., meals together, bedtime talks).
  • Limit workaholic tendencies (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10).

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2. Warning Signs of a Failing Marriage

The devotional highlights red flags that indicate danger:

1. Preferring conversations with others over your spouse.
   • Your spouse should be your best friend and confidant.
2. Avoiding home to spend time elsewhere.
   • If you’d rather be anywhere but with your spouse, repair is needed.
3. Discussing intimate issues with opposite-sex “friends.”
   • This is the first step toward emotional adultery.

Biblical Response:

• “Flee fornication” (1 Corinthians 6:18).
• “Make no provision for the flesh” (Romans 13:14).

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3. How to Strengthen Your Marriage

A. Spend Intentional Time Together

1. Weekly Dates – Dress up, go out, and reconnect.
2. Annual Getaways – A weekend alone (Song of Solomon 7:11-12).
3. Daily Walks/Talks – No phones, just bonding.

B. Guard Against Emotional Affairs

• Avoid:
  • Private chats with the opposite sex.
  • Complaining about your spouse to others.
• Replace:
  • Share struggles with godly mentors (same sex) or a counselor.

C. Prioritize Spiritual Unity

• Pray together daily.
• Attend church and Bible studies as a couple.

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4. The Divine Design for Marriage (Genesis 2:24)

God’s plan is oneness—physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

• Leave – Break unhealthy outside dependencies.
• Cleave – Commit fully to your spouse.
• Become One – Grow together in purpose and love.

Key Principle:

• Marriage is more important than career, money, or personal ambitions.
• A strong marriage blesses generations (Malachi 2:15).

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Prayer for Marital Protection

“Father, protect our marriage from distance, distraction, and temptation. Help us prioritize our union, communicate daily, and cleave to each other as You designed. Fill our home with love, joy, and Your presence, in Jesus’ name. Amen.”

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Conclusion: Choose Closeness Over Distance

1. Reject long-distance living unless absolutely necessary.
2. Invest time daily in your spouse.
3. Flee from compromising friendships.
4. Cleave to your spouse as God commands.

Final Challenge:

• Husbands/Wives: Schedule a date night this week.
• Long-distance couples: Plan the next reunion today.

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The Open Heaven 8 June 2025 devotional for today is DEFLECTING OFFENCES IN MARRIAGE.

This is a daily devotion written by Pastor E. A. Adeboye, General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG).

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OPEN HEAVEN 8 JUNE 2025 TODAY DEVOTIONAL

TOPIC: DEFLECTING OFFENCES IN MARRIAGE

MEMORISE:

Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath:
James 1:19

READ: Colossians 3:12-15

12 Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering;
13 Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye.
14 And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness.
15 And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to the which also ye are called in one body; and be ye thankful.

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RCCG OPEN HEAVEN 8 JUNE 2025 TODAY MESSAGE

The first equation in what I call the ‘mathematics of marriage’ states that ‘Love is blind! Proverbs 10:12 says that love covers a multitude of sins; therefore, married people should not complain about all of their spouse’s faults. To deflect offences, they must learn to accommodate their shortcomings.

Some people are known to call their spouses ‘angels’ affectionately. Though I am not against this, another equation states that ‘Angels don’t eat jollof rice. This is a humorous way of stating that human beings are not angels and, hence, are prone to human mistakes. It is important that married people do not have unreasonable expectations of their spouses that will keep them in a state of being constantly offended. If you’re married or about to get married, you must understand that you and your spouse will offend each other many times in your marriage. However, knowing how to deflect those offences and turn them around will help you a lot.

Years ago, I was preparing for a trip, and my wife wanted to accompany me to the airport. I knew she was likely going to delay me, so l said, “A car will move faster if it is not pulling a trailer behind it.” She responded, “Who’s the trailer?” I could sense that she was offended by what I said, so I quickly said, “I’m the trailer; you’re the car. I don’t want to slow you down.” She laughed and said, “You’re not serious.” If I didn’t know how to turn the situation around, a fight could have started from there. It is important for married people to know when to stop talking or say things that will diffuse the tension when their partners are about to get offended.

James 1:19 is a perfect template for deflecting offences in marriage. When you are swift to hear, you will know how to patiently listen to your spouse without looking for ways to attack him or her or defend yourself unnecessarily. 

Being slow to speak is knowing that sometimes, it is unwise to say everything on your mind. Lastly, any fellow who is slow to anger will not easily get offended.

Beloved, if you want to have a marriage with fewer fights and offences, you must learn not to have unreasonable expectations of your spouse. You must also learn to accommodate your spouse’s weaknesses while you work patiently with him or her to get better through the help of the Holy Spirit.

OPEN HEAVEN 8 JUNE 2025 KEY POINT:

To deflect offences, married people must learn to accommodate the weaknesses of their spouses.

BIBLE IN ONE YEAR

Psalms 18-21

HYMN 59: I WANT TO BE LIKE JESUS

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The Divine Equations for a Successful Marriage

Marriage operates by spiritual principles that we might call “divine mathematics.” Today’s devotional presents two foundational equations:

1. “Love is blind” (Proverbs 10:12) – True love chooses to overlook faults.
2. “Angels don’t eat jollof rice” – A humorous reminder that humans aren’t perfect angels.

These principles teach us that realistic expectations and godly responses are essential for marital harmony.

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1. The First Equation: Love Covers All (Proverbs 10:12)

A. The Nature of Biblical Love

• Love is not blind in ignorance but chooses not to focus on faults.
• 1 Corinthians 13:5 says love “keeps no record of wrongs.”

B. Practical Application

• Instead of complaining about your spouse’s:
  • Habitual lateness
  • Forgetfulness
  • Messiness
• Choose to:
  • Pray for them
  • Gently encourage growth
  • Focus on their strengths

Example:
Pastor Adeboye recognized his wife might delay him but chose humor over criticism when he said, “A car moves faster without a trailer.” His quick wit turned potential conflict into laughter.

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2. The Second Equation: Humans Aren’t Angels

A. The Danger of Unrealistic Expectations

• Many marital conflicts arise from expecting:
  • Perfect behavior
  • Mind-reading
  • Flawless performance
• Remember: “All have sinned” (Romans 3:23) – including your spouse!

B. Accepting Human Imperfections

• Your spouse will:
  • Forget important dates
  • Say wrong things
  • Have bad moods
• Solution:
  • Extend grace (Colossians 3:13)
  • Remember your own flaws (Matthew 7:3-5)

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3. The James 1:19 Conflict Resolution Model

God gives us a perfect three-step approach to prevent offenses:

A. Swift to Hear

• Listen first before reacting
• Seek to understand rather than be understood
• Example: When your spouse complains, don’t interrupt – hear them out

B. Slow to Speak

• Pause before responding
• Ask: “Is what I’m about to say…”
  • Helpful? (Ephesians 4:29)
  • Necessary?
  • Kind?
• Pastor Adeboye demonstrated this by quickly rephrasing his “trailer” comment

C. Slow to Wrath

• Anger never produces righteousness (James 1:20)
• Practice the 24-hour rule for serious conflicts:
  • Wait a day before discussing heated issues
  • Pray together first

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4. The Holy Spirit’s Role in Marriage

A. He Helps Us Grow

• Only God can truly change hearts
• Pray together: “Holy Spirit, help us love like You do”

B. He Provides Wisdom

• For difficult conversations
• For knowing when to speak/remain silent

C. He Brings Peace

• When we yield to Him, He helps us maintain the “bond of peace” (Colossians 3:15)

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Prayer for Marital Harmony

“Heavenly Father, teach us to love as You love – covering faults with grace. Help us to be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger. Fill our marriage with Your peace and guide us by Your Spirit. May our union glorify You in Jesus’ name. Amen.”

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Conclusion: Building an Offense-Proof Marriage

1. Lower your expectations – Accept that humans aren’t angels
2. Raise your grace level – Cover faults with love
3. Follow God’s conflict blueprint – James 1:19
4. Depend on the Holy Spirit – For growth and peace

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The Open Heaven 7 June 2025 devotional for today is THE SUBJECT CALLED ‘SPOUSE’.

This is a daily devotion written by Pastor E. A. Adeboye, General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG).

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OPEN HEAVEN 7 JUNE 2025 TODAY DEVOTIONAL

TOPIC: THE SUBJECT CALLED ‘SPOUSE’

MEMORISE:

Forsake the foolish, and live; and go in the way of understanding.
Proverbs 9:6

READ: Genesis 2:21-25

21 And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof;
22 And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.
23 And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
25 And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.

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RCCG OPEN HEAVEN 7 JUNE 2025 TODAY MESSAGE

Marriage is a school where you study a subject called ‘the spouse’. People need to study their spouses in order to discover what makes them happy and what offends them. Spouses also need to learn how to support each other to achieve their goals and succeed in all aspects of life.

If you are married, understanding your spouse will help you avoid offence, especially when you know his or her weaknesses. For example, a man who knows that his wife struggles with managing time should not be offended whenever she takes her time to get ready for outings. Instead, he should help her to manage her time however he can. Likewise, a woman who knows that her husband struggles to express his feelings should be more patient with him and encourage him to be more open with her. In marriage, you must seek to understand your spouse’s strengths and weaknesses so you can work together to make the best of your union.

When I got married to my wife, we made a vow never to be angry at the same time. We agreed that whenever one of us gets angry, the other partner should keep quiet. One day, we were travelling to Lagos from llesha, another town in Western Nigeria, when my wife got angry about something and expressed her feelings to me. I knew she was right, but l was also angry. As I was driving, she continued to express her anger, but I could not say anything to her because of our vow. When I couldn’t take it anymore, I parked the car and walked away, leaving her inside. After walking for a while, I stopped at a village and bought some fruits. I returned to the car and gave them to her. My wife was already worried because I had been gone for a while. She accepted my peace offering, and that was the end of the issue. I was able to appease her in this manner because we had taken some time to study each other, and we know what works for us.

Once some people go through courtship and then get married, they wrongly think they have learnt all they need to know about their partner. They do not realise that they have only just begun. If you are married, you will avoid many misunderstandings if you humble yourself to study your spouse with the help of the Holy Spirit.

KEY POINT:

Those who are married should humble themselves and keep on learning about their spouses.

BIBLE IN ONE YEAR

Psalms 9-17

HYMN 33: GUIDE ME, O THOU GREAT JEHOVAH!

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Marriage as a Lifelong Learning Journey

Marriage is not just a union of two people—it is a divine school where spouses must continually study each other to grow in love, patience, and wisdom. Just as Proverbs 9:6 urges us to walk in understanding, a successful marriage requires intentional learning, humility, and the guidance of the Holy Spirit.

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1. Marriage: A School Where You Study “The Spouse”

A. The Need for Continuous Learning

• Many couples make the mistake of thinking they fully know their spouse after courtship.
• Truth: Marriage is a lifelong journey of discovery.
• Example: Just as Adam had to learn about Eve (Genesis 2:23), we must study our spouses daily.

B. Understanding Strengths and Weaknesses

1. Weaknesses:
   • A husband who knows his wife struggles with time management should help her, not criticize her.
   • A wife who understands her husband is not expressive should patiently encourage him.
2. Strengths:
   • Discover what motivates, encourages, and fulfills your spouse.
   • Support each other’s God-given purpose.

Lesson:

• Love covers weaknesses (1 Peter 4:8).
• Wisdom builds up (Proverbs 24:3).

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2. Practical Keys to Studying Your Spouse

A. The Power of Mutual Agreements (Like Pastor Adeboye’s Vow)

• “We vowed never to be angry at the same time.”
• This prevented heated arguments and promoted peaceful resolutions.
• Application: Establish healthy boundaries (e.g., no shouting, taking breaks when angry).

B. Conflict Resolution in Action

• Example: Pastor Adeboye walking away, then returning with a peace offering (fruits).
• Wisdom:
  • Sometimes, silence diffuses anger (Proverbs 15:1).
  • Small gestures of love restore harmony.

C. The Role of the Holy Spirit

• Human understanding is limited; we need God’s wisdom (James 1:5).
• Pray together: “Holy Spirit, help us understand each other deeply.”

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3. Avoiding Common Marriage Pitfalls

A. Pride vs. Humility

• Pride says: “I know my spouse already.”
• Humility says: “I’m still learning.”

B. Assumptions vs. Communication

• Never assume—ask questions, listen, and observe.
• Example: “What makes you feel loved? What hurts you?”

C. Emotional Neglect vs. Intentional Love

• Neglect: Taking each other for granted.
• Intentional Love: Daily acts of kindness (1 Corinthians 13:4-7).

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Prayer Declaration

“Father, teach us to love and understand each other as You designed. Help us to walk in humility, patience, and wisdom. Let the Holy Spirit guide our marriage, so we may reflect Your love and glory, in Jesus’ name. Amen.”

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Conclusion: A Thriving Marriage Requires Effort

• Marriage is not automatic—it requires study, sacrifice, and surrender to God.
• When both spouses commit to learning, forgiving, and growing, their union becomes stronger and sweeter.

Final Challenge:

• Husbands: Study your wife like the most important subject of your life.
• Wives: Seek to understand your husband’s heart, fears, and dreams.
• Both: Let the Holy Spirit be your Teacher.

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Key Takeaways for Reflection:

Marriage is a school—never stop learning.
Understanding prevents unnecessary conflicts.
The Holy Spirit is the best Marriage Counselor.

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